A New Little Little

I can't believe I am actually going to say this but . . .

I AM PREGNANT!!!

Wow.  It still hasn't sunk in completely!

To kind of start from the beginning, we were trying!  And this wasn't one of those, whoops, I think I've missed something kind of things.  This was a go to the store everyday to get a new pack of pregnancy tests because I'm having all the symptoms that these online websites say you're supposed to have when your pregnant kind of things.  As a side note, I must have spent a small fortune on pregnancy tests, and I'm pretty sure the girl behind the counter was really hoping for my sake that one of these would turn out to be positive pretty soon.  So to say that we were stoked when we found out would be an understatement! 

I wish I had a good story to tell about how I came up with this elaborate, creative way to tell Jonathan the news, however,  I do not.  Basically, he woke up on the morning of February 18th to a pregnancy test in his face and me excitedly saying "Jonathan, Jonathan, it says we're pregnant, it says we're pregnant!"  That was the best I could come up with in that moment :)  I put the test on the corner of the dining room table and kept it there for the rest of the day.  I had to keep walking by it to remind myself that it was actually positive, and we were actually having a baby!

That next Monday, I scheduled our first doctor's appointment for March 6.  This first appointment was LOOONNGG.  We were there for nearly three hours, going over our medical history and getting blood work done.  It was all very exciting, though, and surreal!  Since then, we have had one scheduled doctor's appointment and one unscheduled appointment.  Around week 8, I started having these little twinges of pain in my lower abdomen.  Since I've never done this before, I wanted to make sure that this wasn't something that I should be concerned about, so I made an appointment.  In a nutshell, the doctor said that it sounded perfectly normal.  He said that it was just ligament pain from my uterus expanding.  (Wow, it sounds scary when you put it like that!) 

Our third appointment was scheduled for April 5th.  Jonathan and I made the drive over to Charlottesville to see Dr. Wolanski, thinking that we were getting an ultrasound that day.  Man, were we excited!!  But to our surprise, no ultrasound.  And although we were disappointed, we did get to hear the heartbeat, and what a special moment that was.  I think that at that moment, everything got very real for Jonathan and I.  Until that moment, we were going on a few side-effects and a positive pregnancy test.  It was just the neatest thing to hear that fast little heartbeat and know that that was our baby.  I don't think I'll ever forget what that little heartbeat sounded like.

Without a sonogram, we still had to figure out a way to tell our parents.  So with a couple of unsuccessful ideas already behind us (and I won't tell each one, because there were several and obviously none of them came to fruition) we decided to just drive down that weekend and tell them - just spit it out!!  I was so nervous, and I don't know why!  We had already planned to drive down that weekend to "sign a lease" - that was our cover-up ;)  We really did sign the lease on our new apartment that weekend, but that was just a convenient excuse.  It worked well, because I know that my parents didn't have a clue, and I don't think that Jonathan's had much of one!  

I took a half day off from work, and we were able to drive down and meet my parents, Pati and Dale, Terry and Roger, and Jordan and Matt for dinner.  It was quite funny after the fact, but we kept trying to get my parents to wait on us at the house, so we could tell them in person away from everyone.  And if I already thought they didn't have a clue, I was sure then, because even though we asked them a couple of times to wait on us, the only thing they could think about was getting a table at Konomi, the Japanese hibachi grill in Trussville!  Failed plan number 3 :)  So, there we were with very few options left, and I knew I couldn't hold it in until after dinner.  I was going to have to tell them at the restaurant.  Not exactly what we had imagined, especially since at those places you have to share a table with about ten other people! But we knew that it didn't really matter how we told them, they were going to be ecstatic!  So when the sushi menus came out, mom was asking me what kind of sushi I was going to get and if I wanted to split some with her.  I was SOOOOOOO nervous!  I don't think I've ever been that nervous in my entire life.  I knew I had to do it then, right then, or I was going to lose my nerve!  So, I just said loudly so everyone could hear me, "No, I'm not getting sushi, because I'm pregnant!"  I don't think I've ever seen my dad move that fast!  He was off his chair in no time, laughing, and hugging me.  Mom just sat there for a few minutes holding her hands to her chest in shock before she hugged me and started crying.  Everyone else was ecstatic and so surprised!  It was honestly the reaction that I had hoped for times ten!!  It was so much fun :)

On, Saturday, we got up and ate a big breakfast with Mom and Dad and went over to the Grand Highlands to sign our lease.  We then headed to Moody to tell Grandmother and Granddaddy, and of course, they were surprised too.  When we told my Granddad the news, he immediately started shaking his finger at Jonathan like he had done something wrong!  It was so funny!  After that, we headed to Florence to surprise Jonathan's family.  We had already told Brett and SB the Thursday before via Skype, so they wouldn't feel left out by not being there in person.  We were all gathered around waiting to eat dinner and once Mummi announced that it was ready, Jonathan asked Mummi if she had any figs . . .I knew Mummi was good and confused when she asked "Figs?  No, why?"  And Jonathan said, "Because that's the size of our baby.  Katie's pregnant!!"  Mummi immediately started crying and I think Doc did too!  Everyone was very surprised, and their reactions were priceless too.

So, I'll end this very long post by saying that we are beyond excited to have been given such a blessing.  Our official due date is October 26, so I should be around 13 weeks this Thursday.  We go for our first ultrasound this Wednesday, and we can't wait!  I'm going to do my absolute best to update more often, because I want to remember every step of this exciting adventure!

** I'm going to try to upload some of the candid shots Jonathan got of me telling Mom and Dad the news once I figure out the easiest way to get them off of my phone :) **